Spring Break and Love?

This week so far,

so boring.

some spring break.

Everyday, I've waken up around 7:30, automatically.

I didn't really go anywhere besides Delaware and Maryland.

Fun there, but it was only a couple of days.

Nothing special really happend.

Beiber has a new video, I forget what the song is, but it's about him with another chick.

What a surprise.

I couldn't really hang with any of my friends, so I was home every single day of the week.

I've been pondering a certain question to myself.

How do you know when you're in love?

Some say it's when you get butterflies in your stomach when you see "the one".

Others say that it's when you know that you are ready.

But how do you know if you're ready?

Also the word "love" itself is overly abused.

"I love my best friend____ (two weeks later, I HATE ____).

Seriously. Love is abused.

I hear little 12 year old kids that are supposedly "dating" saying "I love you" and they only go out for a week?

It's not cool to have a boyfriend/girlfriend when you're 12.

Yeah it's cool to brag and be like"Oh I'm gettin' some",

but honestly, you're really not getting anything, other than a huge ego.

I guess you know you're in love when someone/something is constantly on your mind all the time, and  you can't get rid of it.

I'm not like saying the cheesy scenario of a teenager daydreaming in class,

I mean if you see something, and it reminds you of a someone, and you think about the time that you've spent with someone, yeah.

This doesn't only apply to those relationship things, but with friends and family as well.

Like if you see a word, you instantly think of a person in your life.

Give me any word, and I'll name somebody near and dear to my heart.

Love also takes time.

You can't just take a glance at somebody and say "Omigah I love him/her"

You have to get to know the person.

All of these lil 8-year-old girls are like "I LOVE JUSTIN BEIBER/ROBERT PATTINSON/ THE JONAS BROTHERS" when they have no clue what they're about.

They just fall for their looks.

For all we know, they could be crack addicts (I'm not saying they are).

So yeah, the word love is abused and you don't find it, it comes to you.

-Nikki